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We had both a celebrant and an officiant because neither of us wanted a religious official. We asked my younger sister's father-in-law to officiate. He happens to be a county clerk and we're so thankful he agreed to be there. Our celebrant Ryan is a dear friend of ours. He read the personalized text of our ceremony and Mr. Lee read the official text.
I haven't asked Big Spoon how he feels about sharing our vows on the blog, but I would like to share our ceremony text in hopes that it inspires other couples who may be writing their own ceremony.
Gathering Words
Little Spoon and Big Spoon have brought us together here
for an occasion of great joy and cause for celebration.
Having found each other, they have built the kind of relationship
that will serve them well as the foundation for their marriage.
Each of us knows that a marriage is not created by a law or a ceremony;
rather it occurs in the hearts of two human beings.
It grows out of loving, caring, and sharing ourselves with another.
And so it is that Little Spoon and Big Spoon have connected their hearts,
One to the other, drawing upon the depths of their being,
Into the deep well of human need – the need to live united, loving, and complete.
So, in witnessing this ceremony today,
we are observing only an outward sign of an inward union
that already exists between Little Spoon and Big Spoon.
Today, they have come before us to publicly affirm their love;
to promise to nurture themselves, each other and this union;
and to acknowledge its centrality in their lives.
They do so knowing that marriage is at once the most tender,
yet challenging of all relations in life.
Personal Vows
Little Spoon and Big Spoon have written vows to one another that they would like to share at this time.
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Do you, Little Spoon, come here freely, willingly and not under duress and is it your desire and intent to enter into a legally binding marriage? (bride replies: yes *except I screwed up and said I do)
Do you, Big Spoon, come here freely, willingly and not under duress and is it your desire and intent to enter into a legally binding marriage? (groom replies: yes)
Little Spoon, do you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to love and to cherish, from this day forward?
Bride: “I do”
Big Spoon, do you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife, to love and to cherish, from this day forward?
Groom: “I do”
Ring Ceremony
Just as we bear witness to a written covenant with our signature, so, too,
do we exchange wedding rings to seal the vow of marriage.
Wedding rings are an enduring symbol that remind us of the pledges
we have made to each other and of our responsibility to honor each other
by honoring our promises.
Repeat after me:
I, Big Spoon, take you, Little Spoon, as my wife. I promise to be your loyal husband from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as I shall live.
I, Little Spoon, take you, Big Spoon, as my husband. I promise to be your loyal wife from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as I shall live.
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Closing Words
Little Spoon and Big Spoon, look at one another and remember this moment.
Before this moment you have been many things to one another -
acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, confidant, even teacher.
Today, you have exchanged vows that will take you across a threshold of life,
and things between you will never quite be the same.
For after today, you shall say to the world: This is my husband. This is my wife.
Pronouncement
By the power vested in me as county clerk and according to the laws of the State of Tennessee and Pickett County from upon the vows you have taken in the presence of witnesses, I hereby pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss the bride.
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